My hubby is still in recovery mode from his back surgery. We had hoped that by the end of the 90 day window from the surgeon he would be back to 100%, that is not quite the case. When he was in the worst part of his pain, he had lots of numbness from where his disc was pressing on the nerve that ran down his leg into his foot. He had pain, numbness and at times had to walk with a cane. For someone with a VERY physical job, this was hard…add in our two very active children and it was near impossible.
So now we are cleared by the doc, he can go back to doing everything he did before the surgery…but he still has this numbness from time to time and residual pain. It’s so hard for me to watch him be in pain and suffer…so what to do? Well, last night we were sitting in our family room after dinner and he looks at me and says, “Lets see how healthy we can be from now until vacation.” Now, we have had these little challenges before, but there is more at stake this time. I know he is worried about begin able to walk around Disney for a few days with how he is currently feeling. With that in mind, there was no need to pause, I knew this would be good. “Ok, lets do it!”
So here we are on day one…we have 42 days until we leave and I think that maybe by doing SOMEthing everyday it will help build strength back up in his muscles that was lost during his pre-surgical time and hopefully (fingers and toes crossed) re-strengthening this will help with his pain.
This little challenge is a two-fold one for me though. I have decided to help get myself back in the habit of sitting here with YOU more to blog each day of the challenge as well. What the what?!?! Yep, I’m going to do my best to sit down at least for a few minutes everyday and keep you up-to-date on how we are doing as well as keep my self honest and accountable about how we are doing.
How does that sound? What I am most excited about with this one is our inclusion of the kiddos too! It really is a full family challenge, and to me that makes it the best! So, what do we have planned for day one? Swimming.
My big girl had a soccer showcase this past weekend on the other side of the state so we all packed up and headed down. She stayed with her team in one hotel and Mom, dad and lil sis stayed elsewhere. Sher is going to be a freshman and we were literally just down the way from her so if she needed anything we were right there…but we tried to give her the freedom of being with the coaches, team and team managers. We know we have to loosen the strings some now that she is in high school.
Anywho…if you know me then you know that I generally don’t swim. It seems tat whenever we have access to a pool the water is always far colder than I would like, so I just don’t do it. Well…after 4 hours in the car and sitting through 3 hours of games in 90+ degree heat, I was game for he hotel pool. It was magical. The water felt perfect. We got in and swam around for the better part of 45 minutes before getting dressed and going out to dinner (a nice anniversary steak dinner to top of the night for us and some delish looking ribs for Mini Me).
The next morning Mini wanted to swim again…with how well behaved and patient she has been so far sitting and cheering on her big sis through the heat…how could we say no?!? My first thought too was, “well we were SO hot yesterday that is why the water felt so good, today I’m sire will be no dice.” Much to my surprise the water felt even BETTER the next morning. So Mini Me hopped in while Dadoo hit the hot tub for a few…then we had a nice family swim, ending with Momma getting a few minutes in the hot tub. This renewed my faith in swimming a bit. Top that off with the hubs stating both the first night and next morning how good it felt on his leg to be in the pool and how that relief actually carried out into the day for him. Swimming is going to be a BIG part of this challenge.
So here we go, time to “dive in!”